For long-distance couples and close friendships

Your private
shared space.

Daily prompts, shared memories, a date vault, and a place to vent — everything you need to stay close across the distance.

iOS · 14-day free trial · $50/year per couple · No ads, ever
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Memories
Sunset from my window
Mar 10 · Manual
"What made you smile?"
Mar 8 · Prompt
Coffee date in Tokyo ☕
Mar 2 · IRL Date · ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Valentine's Movie Night 🎬
Feb 14 · Virtual Date
6 Month Anniversary 🌿
Feb 3 · Milestone
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🌻 Having a good one ✨
💛
🌧️ Rough day
Vanessa & Luca
Partners · Tokyo ↔ New York
Today's Prompt · Day 10
"What's one thing you want more of in your life right now?"
Answer →
🔥 9
day streak
✈️ 9
days til visit
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Date Vault
🎲
Pick for Us
Surprise us tonight
🎬 Virtual
84%
🌍 IRL
36%
✅ Done
38
⭐ Wishlist
12
How it works

Built for the in-between moments

Not a messaging app. Not a social network. A private ritual space where two people build something together — one day at a time.

01
Sync with your person
Share a 6-character code. In seconds you're connected in a private Space that belongs only to the two of you.
02
Answer together, daily
One warm prompt each day. Both answers stay hidden until you've both responded — then the reveal. A ritual that builds over time.
03
Build your shared world
Memories, a date vault, a shared calendar, notes, a place to vent. Everything lives in one space, just for you two.
Features

Everything you need.
Nothing you don't.

💬
Daily Prompts
One question a day. Both answers hidden until you've both responded. The reveal is the ritual. Builds a 365-day conversation you'll want to keep forever.
📸
Memory Timeline
A private scrapbook that fills itself. Memories flow in from your dates, prompts, and milestones automatically — or add your own photos and voice notes.
💕
Date Vault
Curated virtual and IRL date ideas with a "Pick for Us" button for when you can't decide. Track what you've done, save what you want to try.
🪺
Vent Room
A safe space to say the hard thing. Posts disappear after 24 hours. Nothing is stored. Your partner gets a notification — not a screenshot.
🗓️
Shared Calendar
All events in both timezones automatically. Add a visit and a countdown appears on both home screens. Milestones prompt a memory capture on the day.
Daily Prompt · Day 10
"What's one thing you want more of in your life right now?"
You
I want more slow mornings. Ones where I'm not rushing. Maybe a coffee, my window, nowhere to be…
🥺
❤️
✨
😂
🫶
Luca
More time just talking. Not texting, talking. I miss your voice on random Tuesdays.
🥺
❤️
✨
😂
🫶
📸 Save this as a memory? Save →
🔥 10
day streak
300
days together
38
memories
📝
Shared Notes — four types, one space
Free notes, checklists, love letters, and idea lists — all in one place. Cook the same grocery list from different cities. Write a letter and wait for the reply. Push bucket list ideas straight to your Date Vault.
Real-time co-editing
🌟
Status Updates
Eight mood presets. A short caption. Your partner's lock screen lights up with "☕ cozy at home" and knows exactly where you are, emotionally. Disappears after 24 hours.
Ambient presence
🛡️
Grace Day Streaks
Life happens. One free grace day per month auto-applies when you miss — streak preserved, no anxiety. We built this because we're in an LDR and we know.
Emotionally intelligent
✈️
Visit Countdowns
Add a visit to your calendar and a countdown appears on both your home screens automatically. The app knows that reunion is the most important date of all.
Always in sync
🔒
End-to-end encrypted
Everything you share — prompts, vents, notes, memories — is encrypted. We don't sell data. We don't run ads. $50/year, that's the whole business model.
Privacy first
🌍
Time zone aware
Every calendar event shows both of your local times. The streak window closes at midnight in the later timezone. The app was designed by someone living the LDR.
Built for distance
What people are saying

Built from experience.

"
The reveal moment when both answers appear — that's unlike anything in any other app. I screenshot it every single time.
Maya, 26 · LDR, 8 months · NYC ↔ London
"
The Vent Room changed something for us. Knowing it disappears after 24 hours made me actually say the hard thing instead of sitting with it.
Theo, 29 · LDR, 2 years · Toronto ↔ Tokyo
"
We've been using it for 3 months and we have 94 memories. I had no idea how much we were doing together until I saw it all there.
Priya, 24 · LDR, 18 months · LA ↔ Mumbai
Pricing

Simple. No tricks.

Nearish Premium
$50
per year · covers both of you
That's $25 each. Less than a single dinner out.
  • Daily prompts with the reveal mechanic
  • Memory Timeline — photos, voice notes, videos
  • Date Vault with IRL & virtual ideas
  • Shared calendar with dual time zones
  • Vent Room — 24hr disappearing posts
  • Shared notes, lists, and love letters
  • Status updates & visit countdowns
  • Up to 4 Spaces (multi-relationship support)
  • No ads. No data selling. Ever.
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